How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 10:40

How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Have you experimented with bestiality?

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

I am married for 3 years. My husband keeps pressing my boobs 40-50 times a day. He never stops though I ask him not to. What I should do to stop it?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Does not procrastinate.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do women wear undies under leggings?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hangs out with loser friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.